Friday, October 23, 2009
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
These are the words of Oprah that every woman should read...............If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop Trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary......not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.. You reap what you sow...
Monday, October 19, 2009
This world is chaotic all right. But as students of life we swirl amongst ourselves, forming rhythms and melodies that will make it worth while sometimes. The balance of raw innocence teeters deviant’s evil, and for those of us who forgive ourselves and learn from our past mistakes, we grow...........move on. Serenity is handed to us in tiny fragments, little at a time its up to us to recognize when the chorus is being played. There grows in city sidewalks single flowers that stick out telling us we are here if you ever take the time to notice. For single seconds in our short lives we may have that opportunity to come of age, and crawl out of shell. Centered utopias, and become one with patience and purity!!!!
Friday, August 14, 2009
I have two arms to give to you.
To hold you and caress to do my
best to bring you a bit of happyness.
I have two lips I speak soft words
meaningful and tru. To tell you
what it means to me, to share my
life with you. I only have one heart to give.
But its your my drear.
For you make life a paradise,
whenever you are near.
I have been so happy
except that i find myself worrying all the time
worrying that I might dissapoint you
worrying that our relationship might end
worrying that you might not be happy
worrying something might hapen to you
I have fallen in Love with you
and I guess i worry so much because
I care about you so much.
Although were apart
I'm never apart from you
Eventhough a great
distance separates us
Everyday I sense that
we are together
I feel your arms holding
me with so much love
in daylight dreams
For a love like ours can
never truley be separated
Forgetting you is something
I cannot do for you are
a party of me.
I look into your eyes and quickly turn way.
I try to talk to you but i don't know what to say.
I laugh at the jokes and I'm concerned when there's hurt.
I always look out for you.
I am alert
I'm afraid to show my feelings
afraid you don't feel them too.
But sometimes i want to pull you aside
and tell you i care for you.
Maybe one day I'll tell you
how much i care but right now
I'm embarrassed to shy to tell you
how I feel.
You have a dream one night and for the rest of the day you cant forget the way his lips felt against yours. The way he smiles at you, and the way he surrounds your heart and soul with his warmth. The dream is so real that you loose touch with reality to real to be true. He makes you happy never sad and as he kisses you for the first time. You awake and want to cry cause you never got to say good-bye. You can't explain the pain and loss. If you could have him back you'd pay the world for him.
Sometimes I wonder how wonderful
it would be if we were together.
sometimes I wonder if you even
think about me the way that I do.
sometimes I wonder if my
dreams will ever come true.
its just hard to love someone
that don't love you.
I'm just tired of giving love
to someone who don't love you,
the way you love them.
so don't tell him you
love him until he tells you first.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Over the yearswe’ve grown strong
you’ve helped me understandthat life goes on
you gave me your hand so help me through
you’ve always cared when I was blue
you helped me copethrough all the tears
you gave me hopethrough all the years
your always here for meyour always a friendthat will never end.................
Please be gentle
Please be gentle with my feelings
It will take time because I been hurt
Please be gentle with your words
It will take times because I have seen many difficult looks
Please be gentle with your body
It will take time because I have felt too many cold bodies
Please be gentle with your love
There is a beauty in being gentle that only real love can understand.............